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I had no trouble meeting men. I got hit on regularly. I suspect it was more an internal change than an external one, as I honestly think I physically look better now than I did ten years ago. Life happened.
That I was flawed. That he had abruptly stopped being attracted to me, after almost a decade of intense, undeniable chemistry.
That my humanity and my imperfections were a turnoff to.
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And that journey starts with this moment of honesty that will hopefully be followed by lots more moments of honesty as I stop frantically searching for the silver lining of every situation and instead just learn to embrace the ugliness, the doubt, the uncertainty, the fear…as all a part of the journey. This is it, ladies.
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We are all in this together and that brings a certain peace and buf to me. Seems like we are not alone….
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I often think about how long this single and childless train will. I hate going to dinner with my friends and their husbands and being the 3rd,5th attacued 7th wheel.
Thanks for the post. I married attached but lonely being ignored to read it! Thanks for sharing what you are going through as well as your thoughts. Basically taking the words right out of my mouth and several other peoples mouths. When do you ever stop looking for that butterfly in your stomach, wearing the biggest smile ever, the kiss, the passion, when?
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